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Workshop:♥LOVE LIFE WOMEN'S RETREAT - THE GIFT YOU ARE
Description:Free Your Wonderful-Full Self & Live The Life You Want. A Retreat for women to take time to just BE...for "Me-time".
Dates:July 13th to July 20th
Location:UBUD BALI, INDONESIA
Fees:TBA
Website:Website Link
 

 


a world where everyone knows how to communicate with each other - where

people both respectfully listen and talk

and truly hear each other.....and feel heard..

How different the world would be if it was the norm for everyone to learn how to be in a relationship and how to be a parent..............

How absurd it is that we don't prioritise learning skills to navigate these two most important journeys - the foundation of everything else in our society.

    All life is about being in relationship - whether it is with our partners, children, family, friends, work colleagues, neighbours and also ourselves ......

              ....it's about communicating and truly connecting.

               

                                               We consider RELATIONSHIPS

                                               and Learning the Skills as

                 The FOURTH "R" of EDUCATION

We ALL need to know and use the best

communication TOOLS and skills.

Everyone needs to learn them - as we are not born knowing them! And we need to regularly update our learning.

               We are in the business of teaching such skills.                

It is our privilege to be of service to you......

       We must be the change we wish to see in the world. Mahatma Gandhi




 

AND

            THE INSTITUTE FOR

RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT

CREATING HAPPY & SUCCESSFUL 

RELATIONSHIPS
          

We are dedicated to educating people how

to create and build happy, successful, loving,

conscious relationships and families.

 

Our professional services provide practical, user-friendly therapy,

counselling, coaching, education, workshops and trainings

for couples, individuals, families, organizations & business.

       "Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use

                                to change the world"  - Nelson Mandela


            THIS LOVE...Our Light will shine upon the world...

This short DVD is a 5 minute collage of photos of couples from the Couples Workshop in the Holding Exercise set to song "This Love" by Bliss....

It is very beautiful, touching and heart opening and we share it with our love and respect for all the couples, and many others like them, in honour of all the healing and transformation they are creating...

The Holding Exercise

is one of the many processes we teach in the Couples Workshop. In this Exercise the couple take turns in holding each other in a special safe holding position for about 10 minutes each. The purpose of the Holding Exercise is to re-experience and release the pain and sadness of one's childhood while being held with compassion by ones' partner. The task of the Holder is to be fully present for the person being held so that they can share about this with complete acceptance.

The workshop was being filmed professionally and one of the film-makers (Zoe Itzstein-Davey) took still photos of the couples (with their permission) while they were doing the exercise and then she spontaneously created the power-point over the lunch break using "This Love" as the backing song. She showed it to the group when they returned. Everyone was speechless and spellbound and deeply touched by the gift and beauty of themselves and the other couples holding each other so tenderly. This is so rare as we don't often get to see ourselves or others being so tender and open and vulnerable. It is even more a special gift considering many of the couples came to the workshop in deep conflict, disconnection and pain.

Comments from couples:

"The 'holding' exercise was very powerful and I found my safe place which I can't remember the last time I had it in the relationship."

"The most impactful tool was the 'holding' exercise where I felt an amount of compassion that I don't think I've ever really felt before for my partner."

"What I got out of the weekend was like falling in love, like for the first time. Not re-capturing the spark, but it was really like I just felt much, much closer. Absolutely amazing and I realised.....I hadn't actually thought that I could be happy...that I could get what I wanted out of our relationship. The 'holding' exercise was amazing. For me to hold my partner and to have her hold me in that way...it was extraordinary. I realised that could have only ever happened in the Workshop. It's not like we read a book and say hey let's do this. Cause we didn't know how to hold each other in that way so I'm really grateful and I'm really excited about our future."

Here are the words for this awesome song and we highly commend the whole CD to you:

"This Love" from the CD "Hundred Thousand Angels" by BLISS www.blissfulmusic.com

I feel it now it's all around me
a silent voice I can't deny.
A mother's arms
how they surround me
They sing the beauty of my life.

I close my eyes it takes me over
a memory deep down in my soul.
And safe from harm
to be beside you
Our light will shine upon the world.

It will last forever (this love)
It will never fade away (this love)
Never cause me pain (this love)

-Our deep appreciation and gratefulness to all the couples-


Shelton Huettig, M.A., Marriage and Family Therapist
4221 34th Ave S, Seattle, WA. 98118. U.S.A.
Tel: (0011 1) 206 325 6167
email: shuettig@aol.com

Susie Itzstein, B.A., Psychotherapist/Educator
Warm Fuzzy Hill, 50 Traylen Rd,
Stoneville 6081. Western Australia.
Tel: +61(8) 9295 2328
Mobile: 0414 771 741
email: susie@graduate.uwa.edu.au

 


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